When Joe Budden didnât report for his duties as co-host of Complexâs Everyday Struggle webcast this week, folks assumed that he was fulfilling his paternal duties, since he had a son with fellow Love & Hip Hop alum Cyn Santana this past weekend. It turns out, however, that Budden has left the show for good after almost nine months.
As of press time, we donât know if Budden quit, got fired or some mixture of the twoâthough his Twitter activity would have us believe that he bailed because Complex got funny with the money. What I do know is that, with his absence, Everyday Struggle will likely fall from my very short list of daily must-watch shows.
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The show thrived on the chemistry of Budden, YouTube personality DJ Akademiks and host Nadeska Alexis. But the âretiredâ Slaughterhouse rapper was undoubtedly the anchor; I mostly ignored every Friday episode in which he took off and was replaced by a guest host.
Truth is, no one chimed into Everyday Struggle to hear Akademiks heap encomium on these pink-tip-dreaded, face-tatted, drug-addicted mumble-rap niggas. And while Alexis is my second wife in my head, I have zero confidence that the two of them can carry the show with a rotating list of guest hosts (exhibit A: This weekâs guest host, Shadyville Entertainmentâs DJ Whoo Kid, inelegantly danced around how much of a flaming dumpster-chemical-fire shit show his boss Eminemâs new album is).
The showâs fans are justifiably unhappy with the news of Buddenâs departure; perhaps the best tweet on the issue evoked a clip of Leonâs indelible portrayal of David Ruffin in The Temptations TV movie:
Itâs true: Akademiks is Otis Williams here, and two bits to a bottle of piss says the show completely falls apart without Buddenâs Ruffin. The whole thing got me to thinking about other instances of good things that became trash when someone important departed.
Iâll freely admit that Iâm not the biggest NBA fan to ever walk the earth. But I was utterly amused at how openly butt-hurt the entire city of Cleveland was when James decided to leave the Cavaliers to win some rings with the Miami Heat, only for them to welcome him back with open arms when he decided to return. Surprising no one, the Cavs didnât get within spitting distance of a ring without James. Itâs like James was Jabba the Hutt and Dan Gilbert was Princess Leia in the slave outfit, having his ass dragged along against his will.
Lionel Richie and Diana Ross are living R&B legends, but they were once members of bands whose other members you couldnât name if someone offered to pay off your car note to do so. No one cared about the Supremes after Ross left; and âNightshiftâ is my jam, but it doesnât ride like âZoom.â Also, the erstwhile Jackson 5 released a 1989 album without Michael that I literally didnât know existed until four minutes ago; that group was especially doomed because everyone aside from Michael sang like Drake with tinnitus.
For my bread, Martin is probably, pound for pound, the funniest sitcom of all time. But the show totally lost its air during season 5, when Tisha Campbell sued Martin Lawrence for sexual harassment and assault of the verbal and physical variety (come to think of it, is any dude associated with Def Comedy Jam worth a damn when it comes to women?). Campbell agreed to finish the show as long as their characters, Martin and Gina, didnât share any scenes together. The results were horrible, and the show was put out of its misery after season 5.
New York Undercover was revolutionary television precisely because it was the first show ever to have black and Puerto Rican men as the leads (not to mention the dopest soundtrack for a television show ever). J.C. Williams and Torresâ partnership was the heart of the show, but when contract squabbles led to Michael DeLorenzoâs Torres being killed off, we were forced to endure a fourth season helmed by Malik Yoba (Williams) and Tommy Ford (RIP) that was the equivalent of what Power would look like if there was a Ghost with no Tommy.
I grew up watching Good Times in syndication in the 1980s. Even as a child, I recognized that the show was not the same after they killed James offâin part because actor John Amos was frustrated with co-star Jimmie Walkerâs shuck-and-jive act (how prescient). Florida Evans as a single mother making a way for her kids mirrored many black families, but the beauty of the original lineup was a full black family making their way in a chow line.
Bottom line: Grown-ups with means should not be consuming McDonaldâs on an even semiregular basis, for a litany of reasons. But the fast-food behemoth likes to play with our emotions and mess with the only thing it has between two buns thatâs worth a goddamn for (admittedly genius) marketing reasons. People care so much about whatâs really an OK-ass sandwich at the end of the day, thereâs a McRib Locator. Because you can get good french fries anywhere, and chicken nuggets do not a whole chain carry.
I mean, this isnât even a thing. And it never could be. Kelly, Michelle, LaTavia, LeToya, Donner, Dasher and Blitzen couldnât book a Motel 6 in Deer Lodge, Mont., without yâallâs queen at the helm. Canât have mac and cheese without the mac.
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