On a mild-weathered Wednesday evening, I traveled toward Downey, Calif., to visit the Los Angeles County of Education and was swept with an immense sense of pride.
As I awaited the esteemed panel to take the stage, I couldnât help but smile at the sea of beautiful black girls coiffed in different hairstylesâbraids, twists, afro puffs, cornrows, afros, bushy ponytails, sleekly straight wrapsâwho sat in eager anticipation, as well.
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That panel was brought to us by Dove, through the CROWN (Creating a Respectful and Open World for Natural Hair) Coalition, whose âmission is to advance efforts to end hair discrimination and to create a more equitable and inclusive beauty experience for black women and girls.â For its initiative, Dove has partnered with Color Of Change, Western Center on Law and Poverty and the National Urban League.
The evening consisted of a Dove Self-Esteem Town Hall and Workshop. Shonda Rhimes (also known as the woman who currently has proprietorship of Thursday nights in primetime television), Unilever Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer (North America) Esi Eggleston Bracey, California State Senator Holly Mitchell (30th Senate District) and Color of Change Program Director Janaya âFutureâ Khan joined four real students who have faced hair discriminationâFaith Fennidy, Tyrelle Davis, Deanna Cook and Mya Cook.
In addition to the young girls recounting stories of public embarrassment, punishments and every other ridiculous rule not related to their education, the interactive panel was filled with candid discussions about anti-blackness, haircare, the importance of self-worth, self-esteem and more.
âWomen need to look like women look real life,â Rhimes stated firmly during the panel.
Unfortunately, I didnât get to take part in the workshop, but the scheduling conflict was fortunateâI got to sit down with Rhimes for an intimate one-on-one chat!
As a creator, Rhimes has certainly contributed to that ârealnessâ of a black womanâs hair. Whether it was the epic moment Viola Davisâs Annalise Keating took off her wig before bed on How To Get Away With Murder, or the unforgettable hostage photo of Kerry Washingtonâs natural âdo when Olivia Pope was kidnapped on Scandal. As someone who is referred to as Doveâs Chief Storyteller, I wanted to ask Rhimes when she saw herself on television, particularly when it came to hair.
âVanessa Huxtable was not always perfectly pressed,â Rhimes recalled, referring to The Cosby Show sibling portrayed by Tempestt Bledsoe. âIt was not always well-done; sometimes itâs sticking out a little bit, [and] it felt real. And then you had the sisters who had much more perfect [hair]âRudy had her little braids. But Vanessa felt like me.â
âThat was exciting to seeâwatching television, that image was goodâto see somebody who you related to, who looked like you,â Rhimes continued. âOver time, there have been a few of those images for girls. I donât think that there were a ton. Now, I think that there are more. I donât know that theyâre teenage girls, but I see a lot of women who are like that. I think there are some shows coming out where youâre starting to see young women who definitely are more representative. And thatâs exciting, too.â
Growing up, Rhimes never considered herself to be a âbeauty product girl,â but she also coveted beloved hairstyles on media stars, especially Whitney Houston (about whom she chuckled as she recounted the time in college she found out Whitney was wearing a wig and was âdevastatedâ). As for her own hair journey, Rhimes said sheâs tried âevery different hairstyle you could possibly imagine.â And as the mother of three girls, she knows the importance of young girls being affected by the images they ingest in different facets of media.
âI think itâs tough out there now,â Rhimes noted. âKids are bombarded with images in ways that we just never were. So, thereâs things that Iâm not even sure I know about that are coming at our kids. Iâm trying to create a world in which theyâre seeing images of themselves as much as possible…women who are beautiful, in the dolls they play with, in the books they read, in the shows they can seeâthey donât get to watch a lot of television, but thatâs importantâwhat comes into their house and the images that theyâre allowed to see. They need to see those images and see those women and understand that thatâs what beauty is, too.â
As someone who has âalways been a boss,â Rhimes makes sure that sense of beauty is also reflected in her office at Shondaland. Thatâs right, wonât be any hair discrimination microaggressions in her world. Shondaland is a safe space.
âThere are women in our office who have all kinds of hairstyles,â Rhimes beamed. âAnd I like that everybody feels free to wear their hair however they want and to be whoever they want in our office. It feels good to me. I did, one day, look around and think to myself, âI donât think Iâve ever seen an office where this has happened.ââ
As Sen. Mitchell noted, there are only two states in the U.S. (California and New York) that have deemed hair discrimination race-based and thus illegal, as it is determined to be a protected class. Californiaâs law will go into effect in January 2020. Of course, the fight continues as administrators work to implement the illegality of hair discrimination on the federal level.
Since Wednesdayâs panel was focused on actionable change, I will end by urging you to sign the petition to help pass The CROWN Act as well as download this template letter to address to your respective legislators.
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